Let’s be real… waiting to feel confident before you show up? It’s the biggest lie the self-help world sold us.
In this mic-drop of an episode, Anita is joined by the absolute powerhouse that is Erica Cramer—aka The Queen of Confidence—for a no-filter, all-heart convo on what it really takes to take up space in life and business (spoiler: it’s not fearlessness).
This one’s a truthbomb 💥 wrapped in cackles, analogies (get ready for nightclub mind bouncers and diamond-hunting in 💩), and the kind of “oof” moments that slap you with exactly what you need to hear.
If you’ve ever felt like:
- You’re holding yourself back because you don’t feel “ready”
- You’re stuck in a loop of overthinking and self-doubt
- You’re performing instead of connecting online
This one’s for you.
In this episode, we unpack:
- The real reason smart, capable women still wait for “permission” to show up
- Why confidence is NOT a feeling (and what it actually is)
- What to do when your inner critic starts shouting (hint: give it a name 👀)
- Erica’s “alter shego” strategy for owning your power—even when you’re scared
- One daily rep you can do to start building your confidence muscle now
Timestamps:
- 0:00 – Why this convo is your metaphorical tuna slap to the face
- 3:25 – Erica’s journey: from self-doubt to confidence queen
- 7:54 – The messy moment that changed everything
- 14:00 – Embracing your weird and finding freedom online
- 16:00 – The one belief to unlearn if you want to own your voice
- 21:30 – Becoming the bouncer of your mind 🧠
- 28:57 – A simple daily practice to grow your confidence
- 33:53 – Fear won’t disappear—and that’s actually a good thing
- 36:44 – Where to get more Erica (and more truthbombs)
